Emotional Competence and Help Seeking
Behaviour
Hi I'm Natalie, I previously wrote a blog on help
seeking behaviour and how the stigma associated with mental health
may hinder help-seeking behaviour. During my research I also came
across the topic of emotion and more specifically how emotional
competence effects help-seeking behaviour.
Emotional competence is characterised by the
ability to perceive emotions, manage your own emotions and manage
others emotions in an acceptable way (Ciarrochi & Deane, 2001).
High emotional competence is thought to be related to help seeking
behaviours as these individuals are more likely to have social
support network allowing opportunities for help seeking, better at
recognising when they are distressed which would help them know
when to seek help and have better skills at managing emotions of
others which makes it more likely the their help seeking behaviour
will be more successful in getting the help response they need
(Ciarrochi & Deane, 2001). This can also have important
implications for young people as they may have more difficulty
perceiving their emotions, managing their emotions and managing
others emotions therefore having lower emotional competence. This
could be due to their level of maturity and cognitive development.
As a young person and many young people I know sometimes I find it
hard to deal with my emotions appropriately and may not go about
finding help the right way because of the way I might be feeling.
Emotions are also a big part of a young person's life and many
decisions are made by young people based on emotions
From a study conducted by Ciarrochi, Wilson, Deane
and Rickwood (2003) it was found that adolescents with higher
emotional competence were found to be associated with higher
intentions to seek help. This implies that those with lower
emotional competence are reluctant to seek help which may be a
major reason why young people fail to seek help for their mental
health issues. In order to get past we could encourage help seeking
among young people with lower emotional competence in order to get
them they help that they need. We could also try to reach
individuals with lower emotional competence through avenues they
may be familiar with. As a young person and many young people I
know sometimes I find it hard to deal with my emotions
appropriately and may not go about finding help the right way
because of the way I might be feeling.
A great way that mental health professionals could
help young people with lower emotional competence is through the
use of the internet. Many young people would feel more comfortable
seeking help online rather than face to face because they don't
have to overtly deal with others emotions which may be
intimidating. Many young people may also find it easier to express
their emotions by writing and chatting to people rather than face
to face as they may find opening this way easier. Personally as a
young person, if a topic was sensitive for me and had a lot of my
emotions attached to I would rather contact somebody over the
internet because firstly I could deal with my emotions in a place I
was comfortable in and I know that I would express how I would be
feeling better than if I were to interact with the person face to
face. Connecting to young people through the internet may be the
ice breaker that gives young people with lower emotional competence
the help they need that they may not otherwise receive. It is
therefore extremely important for health care professionals to
consider this avenue of treating patients.
References
Ciarrochi, J. V., & Deane, F. P. (2001).
Emotional competence and willingness to seek help from professional
and nonprofessional sources. British Journal of Guidance &
Counselling, 29, 233-246.
Ciarrochi, J., Wilson, C. J., Deane, F. P., &
Rickwood, D. (2003). Do difficulties with emotions inhibit
help-seeking in adolescence? The role of age and emotional
competence in predicting help-seeking intentions. Counselling
Psychology Quarterly, 16, 103-120.

Hi I'm Natalie, I previously wrote a blog on help seeking
behaviour and how the stigma associated with mental health may
hinder help-seeking behaviour. During my research I also came
across the topic of emotion and more specifically how emotional
competence effects help-seeking behaviour.
Emotional competence is characterised by the ability to perceive
emotions, manage your own emotions and manage others emotions in an
acceptable way (Ciarrochi & Deane, 2001). High emotional
competence is thought to be related to help seeking behaviours as
these individuals are more likely to have social support network
allowing opportunities for help seeking, better at recognising when
they are distressed which would help them know when to seek help
and have better skills at managing emotions of others which makes
it more likely the their help seeking behaviour will be more
successful in getting the help response they need (Ciarrochi &
Deane, 2001). This can also have important implications for young
people as they may have more difficulty perceiving their emotions,
managing their emotions and managing others emotions therefore
having lower emotional competence. This could be due to their level
of maturity and cognitive development. As a young person and many
young people I know sometimes I find it hard to deal with my
emotions appropriately and may not go about finding help the right
way because of the way I might be feeling. Emotions are also a big
part of a young person's life and many decisions are made by young
people based on emotions
From a study conducted by Ciarrochi, Wilson, Deane and Rickwood
(2003) it was found that adolescents with higher emotional
competence were found to be associated with higher intentions to
seek help. This implies that those with lower emotional competence
are reluctant to seek help which may be a major reason why young
people fail to seek help for their mental health issues. In order
to get past we could encourage help seeking among young people with
lower emotional competence in order to get them they help that they
need. We could also try to reach individuals with lower emotional
competence through avenues they may be familiar with. As a young
person and many young people I know sometimes I find it hard to
deal with my emotions appropriately and may not go about finding
help the right way because of the way I might be feeling.
A great way that mental health professionals could help young
people with lower emotional competence is through the use of the
internet. Many young people would feel more comfortable seeking
help online rather than face to face because they don't have to
overtly deal with others emotions which may be intimidating. Many
young people may also find it easier to express their emotions by
writing and chatting to people rather than face to face as they may
find opening this way easier. Personally as a young person, if a
topic was sensitive for me and had a lot of my emotions attached to
I would rather contact somebody over the internet because firstly I
could deal with my emotions in a place I was comfortable in and I
know that I would express how I would be feeling better than if I
were to interact with the person face to face. Connecting to young
people through the internet may be the ice breaker that gives young
people with lower emotional competence the help they need that they
may not otherwise receive. It is therefore extremely important for
health care professionals to consider this avenue of treating
patients.
References
Ciarrochi, J. V., & Deane, F. P. (2001). Emotional
competence and willingness to seek help from professional and
nonprofessional sources. British Journal of Guidance &
Counselling, 29, 233-246.
Ciarrochi, J., Wilson, C. J., Deane, F. P., & Rickwood, D.
(2003). Do difficulties with emotions inhibit help-seeking in
adolescence? The role of age and emotional competence in predicting
help-seeking intentions. Counselling Psychology Quarterly, 16,
103-120.